But about them dropping out as well is an assumption in itself too..
If everything is an assumption and the wrong one at that, thats how we ended up here.
In the future if we want to make this work we need to understand each others intentions..
And true meaning and understanding is achieved only when u strip away the diplomacy. Otherwise we are just diplomats. Not friends. Also we should talk to each other about it not just complain behind others backs. Coz true friends can tell each other off and not take it to heart and grow from it right?
I think the rest of us have all laid our cards on the table.. its whether u n lulu wana come meet us in the middle.. the middle meaning that we try again..
If we are, then everyone would need to stop making assumptions and start communicating.. communication has to be 2 way.. it can't be just us asking, but everyone..
I know everyone is thinking that a leader while good to have.. leader can say "you idiot. Its ur fault go apologise". A leader can also say 'you idiot. You get out" but if everyone knows the team goals and expectations, a leader is not really a must..
If u really will be happier elsewhere im sure everyone will give u their blessings but of course we'd b happier if u guys stay..