Well, i wouldn't feel any need to kill or scold people if only they followed simple instructions, (and made life easier for the organizer) and if people actually took the initiative to organize, or help out with organizing events, i wouldn't feel stressed or be brimming with negativity.

but oh well here i am again organizing this birthday, the next birthday party, and most probably every single party this year again.. And its everyone's friend, but somehow nobody is excited about helping out with organizing the party, everybody only wants to go there, sit n eat n have their name on the present. i have to chase some people for input, feedback, and contributions as if they don't really care about th birthday celebration. And nobody ever thanks me for organizing.

but lets put that aside for this party and have fun for Shunfa's sake ok?

u know.. i think i am really going to make good on my word, and buy present for that person on my own, and bring that person out for dinner, just two of us, UNLESS SOMEBODY ELSE ACTUALLY TAKES INITIATIVE TO ORGANIZE SOMETHING