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This description is a generalisation. If it rings true, you've found your career type.

You would be very happy in a career that utilised your people skills. You want a career that allows you to stimulate your senses and your mind. Some careers that would be perfect for you are: 

• Actor
• Recruitment Consultant
• Politician
• Marketing
• Psychologist
• Religious Minister
• Teacher
• Social Worker
• Human Resources Manager
• Sales
• Lawyer
• Advertising

 

You are a great leader. You genuinely enjoy being around other people. Your relationships with others are very important to you. You love talking and meeting new people. You are very enthusiastic about work and about all that you do and have in your life. You love being the focus of attention. You enjoy a fast pace. You are very socially oriented. Therefore, you are much happier being with others than you are alone. You crave interaction with others. 

 

You are very spontaneous and often act before you think. You are always quick to answer when you are asked a question, even if you aren't sure of the answer. It is easier for you to improvise as you go along. You enjoy thinking out loud, and are most creative when brainstorming with friends or colleagues. You enjoy being involved in many activities. 

 

You are very easy to read, and often wear your heart on your sleeve. You are never afraid to tell people what you think. You are very empathetic and genuine. You can sometimes be seen as over-emotional or too involved by others. But that is only because you tend to get so involved in the things you do that they become personal. You want to be adored, loved and appreciated. You like to please others and to make sure people are happy. 

 

You trust what is certain. You only like new ideas if they can be practically applied to the situation. You value what is real. You use your common sense. You like to utilise the skills you have instead of learning new ones. You are very specific and detailed when writing or talking to others. You follow directions well. You like things to be laid out for you to do instead of working them out for yourself. You like decisions to be made. You don't like leaving things in limbo. You like to know what you are getting into before you commit to something. 

 

You like to focus on the here and now. You enjoy completing projects. It is important for you to achieve and succeed. Therefore, you believe in working hard and playing later. You like to set goals and work towards them.

 

Finding a career that is right for you isn't always an easy thing. However, if you secure a job that is suited to your personality type you will enjoy going to work, feel great about yourself, feel appreciated and look forward to what's ahead. 

 

This test was adapted from C. G. Jung's famous personality types.

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Parenting: Information & advice

SPilt

I think I have 2 sides of me

the daring adventurous side. the friendly gregarious warm and outgoing side. the side that talks alot, laughs alot and never lets a challenge slide. the side that will stare at you daringly in the eyes until you back down. the side that wants to lead everyone else to a better place. the side that always gets her way.

then there's the side that rather not talk to anyone. it's scared of everything. scared of rejection to the point that it'd rather be alone. I'd rather not look into your eyes because I'm afraid of what I will see in them.

I realise that I switch between these 2 individuals at regular intervals. sometimes it's a fixed period of time. sometimes it's not.

I was born loud and bossy
after I got scolded by an uncle for the first time in my life at 2 years old I became soft and mousey.
I stared at the world go past with teary eyes.
I regained my confidence in kindergarten. I set the rules my 2 lackeys would follow.
in p1 to p2 I had a best friend.
I was a teacher favorite. excited to learn. always has answers. i shut my mouth in p4 when I realized that people disliked me for having good grades and being a "pet"and my parents divorced.
I had a group of friends again from p5 to 6. I felt like I belonged again.
I clammed up again in sec school. s1-4 I was quiet. the weight of their divorce weighed on me.
j1-2 was the most boisterous days of my life.
UNi 1-4 I was quiet. there were politics best avoided.
work 1/2 I was just me. lived life in an excited dream.
work 2nd half. I should go back to being the me in my lower primary days.

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the whole world..

whenever you want something badly enough the whole world will conspire against you such that you don't get it.

if I see that bus driver again I wish that I could bitch slap him.

annoying bugger who is damn slow that my prime time bus reaches the office busstop at 8.30am together with the bus after him and the bus before him reaches the office busstop at 8.05am.

something needs to be done!!

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on time

I realized that when I reach work on time I am acutely aware of the passing of time.

feels like forever

5.30 when r u coming?!

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would you

If you don't have anyone to share your happiness with would you feel sad?

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