ray ray love~~~
Friday, April 30, 2010
Sunday, April 25, 2010
This is why i hate smart alecks who have to be all formal and analytical and fuss over every single tiny detail
they take the fun out of everything!
boo!!
This is why i never wanted to be one and open my trap about this kind of things
but oh well.. looks like you gotta be one to get ahead do you?
this one is cute too! but the people really.....
Monday, April 19, 2010
Friday, April 16, 2010
Many years ago i said i lived my life without regrets and i loved every day
a bit older now, but still non the wiser.. there are now things i regret..
Like that interview this week
Like cutting off all of my hair that time
Like not bothering to be friendly
Like joining NUS (but then i wouldn't have met yingqi!)
Life is not a popularity contest, but i realised that professionalism is being distant, but friendly at the same time. how on earth do you do that, while being distant? I just cant. I get too friendly and then i get hurt. Or i stay too distant and never make any friends.
But like sotong said. what is this kind of friendship worth?
So i realised, i should just say hi, be uber friendly, and not let them affect me. But how can one be uber friendly, and make it seem gunine, without it coming from the heart?
It looks like im not good enough at being a fake person.
why do i have to become a fake person just because i have to grow up?
ugh i hate the thought of becoming an adult and having to enter the working world.
where everyone is "professional" and speaks with some american accent.
I just dont understand adults. How to connect with them.
Wish ranking!
1) DAD (1158)
2) Jiaxun & Jiaying (1159) they both insist that its 12.00
3) BIGGIE!! & eunice - omg the bird wish me before the person! THANKS FOR CALLING! *-* (actually first to me, but den other people keep insisting they are first so ya...)
4) YINGQI - YAY! ANOTHER CALL XD
5) tong!
6) DINA
7) NISHA -facebook!
actually theres a gap here but oh well...
8)alex
9) MEIFENG
erm..... still waiting... hahahhha
Thursday, April 15, 2010
Wednesday, April 14, 2010
Will bras keep the breasts from sagging?
Bras will keep your breasts from sagging while you're wearing them - but not for the remainder of time. There is no published medical literature showing that bras prevent sagging. Even the bra industry seems to know this, as the following quote illustrates:
"We have no evidence that wearing a bra could prevent sagging, because the breast itself is not muscle, so keeping it toned up is an impossibility. What it can do, particularly for larger-breasted women, is obviously to provide the comfort and the support. So, if a woman wants a particular breast profile, she will buy a particular brand, and that is what they're designed for. There's no permanent effect on the breast from wearing a particular bra. The bra will give you the shape the bra's been designed to give while you're wearing it. Of course, when you take it off, you go 'au natural.' "
executive John Dixey at Bras, Bare Facts documentary
However, there is some support for the idea that breasts in bras actually sag more (when bra is taken off). How could that be since the main idea of bras is to lift the breasts upward? The main idea is that theligaments which support breasts in normal circumstances, would atrophy (get thinner and weaker) when breasts are immobilized within bras and don't have to bear their own weight.
There are lots of studies showing that ligaments and tendons in limbs do atrophy when the limb is immobilized. Bras obviously prevent the the natural slight up-down movement of breasts when we walk, and let shoulders bear the weight of breasts. If breast ligaments behave like limb ligaments, it may be a matter of "use it or lose it".
One study published on the subject of bras and sagging was done in 1991, in Japan. The study suggests that a bra can actually increase breast sagging rather than the opposite
Sports bras and jogging
There is one more notable study concerning sagging and bra wearing, which found that jogging caused breasts to bounce enough to sretch the Cooper's ligaments inside the breast. Naturally, stretched ligaments would cause the breast to sag more.
The lesson to take home from this study is that if you engage in jogging or some other type of very active sport, sports bras are recommendable.
what are my strenghts and weaknesses
and whats my passion?
i dont have to explain myself? Or i didnt explain myself well enough i feel..
(here is propaganda i will use for my interview next time)
strenghts:
really good at typing fast & doing documents n spreadsheets n powerpoints - efficient
With a pen n paper, i am very good at taking notes - know exactly what were the key points they just talked about
good at interacting with people - not shy - but must be at same level as me
Openness to new experiences - I love new experiences, it can almost be said that i thrive on them. I feel very in my element, and i adapt quickly. If pitted against a group of people who have just started too, i normally do better then them. However, i am not a perfectionist, so in the long run, these people will excel over me. I need to improve on this aspect as well.
Willpower - mind over matter - self discipline- stamina. I am good at this. For example, i enjoy running long distances. After about 4km, your body really wants to stop. But you have to control your mind over matter, and just push yourself on. I think that this is really important in life too, like in rushing the last deadline, completing long projects, motivating the group.
Weaknesses:
superiority-complex: not sure how to talk to superiors and adults. could have been my upbringing, or my childhood. but when authority says no, i dont question it. this is something ivh been trying to improve. Must always think. Its not about doing it right, but about doing what is right.
Im too nice. the problem with being nice, it has been proven that people think that you are stupid. they try to push you over, or take advantage of you.
I trust people too easily. Most people would say its a weaknesses but i say that its a strenght. I actually learnt in my negotiations module that there is no such thing as partial trust, and people will treat you how you treat them. Wholesome trust will also build a good working environment.
passion:
animals
people? (not really a passion, more of a hobby)
life! - trying new things, meeting new people, helping others
Hobbies:
Running, Reading, surfing the internet (i used to read books, but now a days i get most of my information off the internet)
Tuesday, April 13, 2010
I rmb telling shunfa
"those ppl go ntu all quite happy.. rmb they all never hang out w us le?"
den he is like.. yah loh yah loh...
den we were like... who ar?
jackson...
yihao....
erm...
eh got 1 more leh?
u rmb who?
dun rmb leh...
i think nt impt lah.... someday will rmb...
i rmb today!
when i saw her post on somebody's wall!
ah well.. she's dead isnt she?
One of the things about me is that.. i really value friends who are completely candid n honest with me... And their friendship i value alot.. I guess its true when they say that you like who you want to be..
I think i should start being that person.. and be true to myself.. and honest about how ivh been feeling lately..
which is pretty much damn lousy..
Sunday, April 11, 2010
Friday, April 09, 2010
Monday, April 05, 2010
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