this was interesting...

If your ex appears to hate you, have moved on, told you to stop
contacting, says there's no chance in hell and just plain wants
nothing to do with you.

Here's something to think about...

There is a FINE line between love and hate. Actually sometimes
those lines cross over.

Why do you think your ex would CARE to hate you if they didn't care
for you at all?

It's the people who are closest to us that has the potential to
hurt us the most, and your ex knows this! In fact, you see this in
couples all the time when an argument erupts. They know exactly
what to say to hurt one another. And it works every time.

I classify the following as things people do/say when they're in
DEFENCE mode.

* Ignoring you/shutting you out

* Telling you they hate you and never want to see you or talk to
you again

* Blocking your advances quickly (as if it's a reflex reaction)

* Doing things deliberately to make you jealous (dating someone
new, deleting you on Facebook, telling or showing you how happy
they are now you're broken up)

If your ex just did not care at all and they've completely moved
on, they wouldn't bother putting in the EFFORT to hate you.. yes
that's right, it's not easy to hate someone and keep hating someone.

Case in point.

When you're upset with someone, is it "natural" to block someone
out, to resist talking to them, to ignore them and be hostile
around them? This stuff does not come easily to anyone, it takes
EFFORT.

If your ex is putting in so much effort to block you out and treat
you like you don't matter, then clearly you know the OPPOSITE is
true, because to truly not care would mean they'd be in their
natural state around you.

In other words, they'd be indifferent!

And I think:

The more an ex appears to hate you, the MORE they're really hurting
inside. That's why you need to approach the whole situation very
carefully! The mistakes you make while they're vulnerable matters
and they STACK.

When you're extremely emotional and the same annoying thing (or
person) keeps contacting or annoying you, you're going to dislike
that person/thing even more.

The Ex Recovery System and especially my From Break Up to Break
Through Program addresses this point. Actually it's excellent for
bridging that gap between your ex's need to stay away from you
(from hurting) to your need to penetrate and make them trust you
again.

At the end of the day it comes down to TRUST and RESPECT. Two key
points the Ex Recovery System revolves around.

Click here: http://www.exrecoverysystem.com

I'm not saying its some miracle cure.. and I don't agree with
products that promise "instant" results to getting an ex back
anyway. The system is about LONGTERM happiness for you because
you're the central figure in your life!

With that said, The Ex Recovery System is only for people who care
about their relationships and improving it for the better.

So often people get it wrong because, well, because no one teaches
you about it! Most people only have parents, friends and
celebrities to model of and sometimes that's not the best example
of relationship success! Did I say sometimes? More like most of the
time.

If you'd like a proper chance to reunite with your partner and get
the relationship working FOR YOU instead of you working for it.