this is interestign:

we dont suggest that people explicitly define their values because the results are usually too predictable. instead we seek to uncover them, in part by asking questions that are inadvertently revealing such as "what are the qualities that you find most off putting in others?"

by describing wat they cant stand, people unintentionally divulge what they stand for.

If you are very offended by stingyness, generoisty is what you generally stand for.

if you are especially put off by rudeness in others, its likely that consideratios is a high value for you.