Self centered selfish b*

She was saying

B: I never list my employer's namd on facebook. Otherwise whatever you say they know

We told her about the ntuc case where she  didn't put any employer but still they caught her and dismissed her. Warned her that as long as its racist or opionated shouldn't say on a the internet

B:its so sad right? As public servant everything also cannot say. Everything also they want to control. Don't you think it's sad?

We stared at her queerly. No I don't think its sad

I wanted to continue to say

Because I believe that as long as its not constructive, rude, or might hurt somebody  I don't see a point in saying it.

But I thought that it was rude so I kept my thoughts to myself

I wanted to tell her. If your comments dont add value to the situation and only hurt others, why do you even say it. Its not going to change anything. What benefit do you derive from saying it.

Knowing how she is. Most prob she will say

B:because I feel better after complaining. Let off some steam.

Then I would want to tell her.

Then thats you being selfish and not thinking about others feelings. How can you do that.

No thats why I keep these thoughts to myself.

I must think of a politically correct way of saying this.