True lover's or those in love truly...never would manipulate their partner into doing something you know that is against their wishes. If it's wrong for a man who wants 3 kids, and his woman wants 2 to "soft coerce" her into having that 3rd is wrong. It is just as it is wrong to "soft coerce" your lover into having kids as proof of loving you. Rather that "love" now becomes manipulated for your own selfish ends because you feel you are entitled to have a child with them, they now "owe" you that child. This no longer is love, but cold calculated selfish manipulation of strong emotions nothing more. It is love perverted by selfishness, and such is never LOVE.

There is a big difference between request, and requests fulfilled out of love. There is also a thing called manipulation. which are you? But does the puppet ever know he is being manipulated? Does he know that someone is pulling his strings? Or is he too happily lost, in the love, to notice what is happening to him?